Travelin and Internal Reflection

me n the crew

This weekend I visited South Korea’s second largest city Busan.  What a beautiful city it is.  I almost wish I would have chosen to work there!  I had an amazing time and I met a few people who broadened my mind.  Through my friend Alexis I managed to meet all of the Black people in this area!  LOL  we had a blast at the club in Busan!  I took some time for myself on Saturday while the crew was shoppin to go to the beach.  My favorite place in the world.  Beaches in Korea are tiny, but beautiful.  It was a little chilly, but very nice.  

This week completed my third week in Korea and my first full week of teaching solo.  It has been fun.  I’m getting to know my classes better.  I enjoy most of my classes.  There are only a few that agitate me, but the other classes make up for those few.  Teaching English to this age (9-16) has given me a new appreciation for this age group.  Previously, I was strictly a baby lady.  I only wanted to work with children that were age 8 and under.  I have a new outlook for this age group.  It’s nice to be able to actually talk to these kids.  I can teach them things like humility, kindness, manners, and all of my hippie ideals :)  They are a blank slate, their ideals are still forming and I can help in that process, it’s a beautiful thing.  Especially in this country, where the people are behind in ideas of independence, women’s rights, diversity, and peace.  

Now that I’ve partied my heart out here, I’m ready to get back on track with what I started in Korea.  Although party life out here is a dream, I don’t want to get caught up in that life.  It’s possible to party all night, every night for very very cheap in Korea.  Bars and clubs don’t close until you’re ready to go home.  I momentarily forgot why I wanted to come out here, and that was to get away from that life.  I want to focus more on myself and what I want to create for my future.  

I’ve had so many thoughts while I’ve been out here.  One thing I was extremely curious about while I was still in America was how we are portrayed though another country’s eyes.  I have spoken with enough native Koreans now that I think I can put my finger on it.  America is defined purely by corporations, money, and name brands.  Even name brands that are NOT from America.  I was speaking with a young woman my age and she told me she wanted to go to America to have Starbucks, Prada, and Gucci.  Since I’m not a name brand type of person, I’m not 100% sure about Gucci, but Prada isn’t from America.  It’s just associated with it because that’s what rich people have.  

Since I’ve been here several “American” restaurants have opened up on just about every corner in Korea.  Baskin Robbins and Dunkin Donuts are very popular here.  All of my kids think that those are the only places that I eat at.  They are thoroughly shocked when I tell them I only recently went to Baskin Robbins for my first time.  I told them that those restaurants are going out of business in the states.  

I wonder about the trends America is setting for the world.  Our economy is in a shambles and businesses that are going bankrupt in the states are spreading their wings in other developing nations… isn’t there something wrong with that?  Are we not encouraging other countries to go down the same treacherous path we ourselves went down that is now resulting in an awful failure?  

Globalization is a hard thing to teach to people who live in a small country that idealizes America.  In Korea, globalization is a great thing, the addition of American business, production of billions of cars and ships, and becoming a developed nation is the main objective.  I have had a few of my high school students tell me how wonderful globalization is and it makes me cringe… I am not a proponent of globalization, I personally believe it is bringing on the ruination of the world.  However, I need to get real.  I am a perfect example of globalization.  I’m pretty much an American import right?  

the view from our hotel balcony

I hate to complain about America, I realize now more than ever how lucky I am to be from such a beautiful country.  Where I have the freedom to form the opinions that I have, where I gained an education that children abroad dream about, and where I had the amazing opportunity to grow up and live in the beautiful thing we call diversity.  However, I believe America must do more to enhance its image abroad.  I sure hope our new president will help that.  

I’lll close on that note.. I have a TON of pictures for your viewing pleasure of my awesome weekend in Busan.  

Enjoy! 

Love & Light 

The beginning of the trip

Partyin like a rock star

The morning after and the beach

Week 2

I can’t believe two weeks in Korea has gone by.  I still don’t think I’ve processed it all.  The novelty of Korea has definitely worn off, but I am still enjoying my time. 

This week, I was called hip-hop hair by my students.  I didn’t know whether to laugh or cry.  This country has a long way to go in regards racial equality.  What I have noticed in my short time here, is that there are no social injustices in this country.  Everyone is the same.  Everyone has the same heritage, same background, and are all pure blooded Koreans.  No one is treated differently, because there are no differences amongst the people.  I feel that this will change soon, with more foreigners entering the country to teach and work with Hyundai.  I have met quite a few foreign men who have married Korean women.  With more foreigners in the country, I’m sure that is bound to happen more and more.  The appearance of the Korean population will be drastically changed within a decade.   

For the most part, my students are awesome.  I really enjoy teaching.  I never thought I would really enjoy the job or be good at it.  As quite a surprise to me, teaching has come to me naturally.  I guess all of my previous work with children has paid off.  I have successfully tricked the children into learning.. it’s great!  In one class, a student commented that all we did in class was play games.  This is true, we did play several games, but the class spoke in English the entire time, which is the point of the class.  I love it!  

However, It isn’t the ideal teaching situation.  I don’t have my own classroom, I have so many classes that i don’t know if I’ll ever learn all of my student’s names, and I don’t get paid for prep time.  On the up side, I don’t give out homework or tests, I only teach each class for 50 minutes, and I get to be the cool teacher for the kids.  Creates a balance I suppose.  

In a taxi last night, I had a strange broken English conversation with my taxi driver.  We talked about Obama.  It’s so great to me that even all the way over here in South Korea, people want Obama to be the president.  People are also very aware of how terrible George Bush is as a president.  I think the whole world is looking forward to the change a new presidency will give our nation.  

The crisis on Wall Street has affected me drastically.  I have been very observant of the changes in the stock market since my arrival.  I have paid more attention than I think i would have in the states.  The saying in South Korea is: “If America catches a cold, South Korea sneezes.” Or something to that affect.  The value of the won has dropped dramatically in my short time here.  I had intended on sending a lot of money home to pay off debt, but to change over the won to the dollar is pitiful at best.  I really hope things get better over there soon so that I can get back on track with my savings plan.   

I didn’t go hiking this week, because I was not feeling very well.  I’ve been stuffy for the past few days.  The one cool thing I did do this week was have a bonfire.  It seems there are no rules in Korea.  My group of friends and I picked up random pieces of wood we found and burnt them on the beach.  No one attempted to stop us.  It was nice to have a bonfire, it felt like being back at home.  

I hope you are all doing well out there.  I’m dong pretty great.  Life is good, I’m just taking it one day at a time.  Feel free to write me, I have quite a bit of down time.  

Love
Me

Bonfire at Ilsan Beach

Weygugi (foreigner)/Ambassador of Black People

I finished my first full week in Korea.

It has had its highs and lows. I am adjusting to people staring at me, pointing, calling me Weygugi (foreigner), and being unable to communicate with 95% of the people here. In the classes the children stare at me, none of them have seen a black person before. I was asked by one of the Korean instructors to explain my hair to her class. I refused. I’ve been struggling with how to react. At first, i was upset and frustrated and angry, but now I’m taking it all in stride. I am becoming more aware of how behind this society is when it comes to different cultures and diversity. Essentially, I am here to help broaden the worldview of the native people of Korea. I am taking my roll as Ambassador of Black people very seriously. For the most part, a lot of these people will never leave this peninsula, so I will be their only experience with a person of color. I want to show them how beautiful my culture is. If I can erase the stereotypes and broaden the perception of one Korean, my mission will be accomplished. I plan to use my classroom as an opportunity to show the positivity of Black culture. I am going to use positive music and poetry from Black authors to show my classes a different perspective of Black culture. Most of them only have exposure to what is on American television and movies here (think Boys in the Hood and 50 cent). Don’t get me wrong, It’s not all bad here. I don’t mean to sound negative, but that is one major part of my life here in Korea. I am very aware of the fact that I am Black. I am more conscious of my skin color, nappy hair, and weight than I ever have been in my life.

On a brighter note, I have met some pretty great people. I went out Friday and Saturday night and experienced night life in Ulsan. Friday night, we went to a traditional Korean club. It was fun and hilarious at the same time. I went with two of the teachers here and other foreigners who teach near our school. Here, there is a dj/singer/dancer/stripper in each club. He is on the stage as the DJ then he stops for a minute and becomes a singer/dancer and in the end he strips down to his chonies. It’s great! Hilarious! Dance music is played for about 20 minutes, then slow jams come on (which is the cue for everyone to take a break, get a drink, and chat), then dance music again. Clubs don’t close until after 5 a.m. Also, what I noticed, Koreans are a little more reserved when it comes to dating. Boys and girls don’t go to clubs together. The girls are escorted around to tables where there are men and if they think they’re cute they sit down. It’s similar to speed dating. I found it all quite entertaining. I had a great time with the friends I made.

On Saturday night I went to a foreigners bar. There were a lot of new teachers there looking to make friends. I met people there from all around the world. Today, Sunday, I went hiking with one of the teachers at my school, Caroline. She is really a sweet woman. We hiked to the local store here, which took about an hour. I saw a beautiful side of Korea that made up for the bad parts of the week. When we came back, I saw a Black woman walking down the street. She is the first Black person I have seen since I arrived in Korea. I flagged her down and we talked for a bit. Turns out we are neighbors. I got her info and we’re going to go to dinner this week. I didn’t realize how starved I am for the company of someone that looks like me. It is comforting to know that I’m not the only one here, she’s really sweet and I look forward to getting to know her.

I start teaching this week on my own, I’m sure that will be a whole new set of adventures :) I added pictures of my hike today.

Thanks for reading,

Hiking in Ulsan Take 1

First day of training

So….

Today was the first day. The first class was sooo incredibly rambunctious! They are a funny bunch, but there are quite a few of them in the class and the teacher has absolutely no control. She hasn’t set any rules and has let them run wild. They aren’t bad kids, they are just excited, and just want to be outside playing. I wish I could give that to them. Today, i was speaking with one of the children and she told me her schedule. She wakes up at 7 a.m. to go to school, then she goes to math academy, then piano lessons, then English academy, then home to do homework! She doesn’t get home from school until after 9 p.m. then she still has homework to do. Their lives are so intense for such young children.

When I spoke with my director about how I felt about this, she explained to me the situation from the Korean parents perspective. They are struggling now and they want their children to have the best of the best. So they spend quite a large amount of money from their paychecks each month so that their children will have a better future. I understand it, but I still believe children need to be children. Some of them are so serious and others are completely rebelling because they’ve been in school for over 10 hours. I honestly can’t figure out which is worse: children in America who care so little about education, their future, and spend hardly anytime studying or children that are in school day in and day out with no time to be young and carefree?

Most people in Korea have NEVER seen a black person. Or anyone who isn’t Korean for that matter. Korea is known as the most culturally homogenous place in the world with a population of 98% Korean! The students are very intrigued by me because I am Black and because I’m from California. I wouldn’t call the people here racist, just uninformed. Most of the students here have never been outside of Korea and have never been exposed to any other cultures. Even a Chinese or Japanese person is foreign to them. They are extremely curious about me, (who knows what they have learned about Black people from their families or from the television). They lean out of the classrooms to wave hello to me! I feel like a superstar!

I live on the 5th floor of the school with 3 other teachers. I haven’t seen much of them so far, but I hope to soon. The other two girls live near the beach. They don’t have too many positive things to say about Korea, but I am going out with them tomorrow so hopefully I will see a different side of them and meet more people who live in the area. I am truly enjoying my time here. I love all of the change that is around me. I think that the fact that I will be able to deal with this transition positively will make me so resilient. I feel so strong for making this move on my own. I’m really proud of myself and happy! I want to accomplish all that I can while I’m here. It’s really an amazing opportunity to learn about another culture first hand. 4 months ago, Korea didn’t even exist to me, now I’m living, working, eating, and breathing Korea. Amazing huh?

Anywho, that was a long one, I was excited after class! I’m going to go out and buy some things tomorrow for the apartment, so I’ll take some photos of the neighborhood to share.

I think I’m gonna get a kitty! The girl who is leaving needs to find a home for her kitty friend and who better to adopt a kiikii? He’s a boy too!

I miss you all out there in the States. I miss diversity and people that know ME. Hope you all are doing well, drop me a line sometime… I’m always onlline :)

Love & Light

Nichole

Ulsan.. the beginning

Today I arrived in Ulsan, the province where I will be spending the majority of this next year.  It’s very beautiful and a lot less polluted than Incheon and Seoul.  I am very thankful for that.  It’s amazing the small comforts from home that I miss like: the trash man, and the general regulations that America has.  There are no rules about pollution, littering, driving, and food safety.  Living in this country will give me a greater appreciation for America.  

Don’t get me wrong, so far I have really enjoyed myself.  I am trying not to get overwhelmed and just take it one day at a time.  The language barrier is amazingly difficult, luckily the people in this area are used to seeing foreigners so they know some English.  I have picked up a lot of Korean very quickly!  You have to adjust when you want to eat I guess :)  I plan on taking a Korean class once I get a little more settled.  They have language exchanges here at the local university where you can go and learn Korean with a native student who wants to practice their English.  
 I have learned that my kids are challenging, they are teens, and bitter about going to school so much.  Koreans highly value education.  These kids are in school a lot compared to American children.  They have regular school, then English classes five days a week on top of that, then most have another extracurricular activity, and two Saturdays a month they have school.  It makes me wonder when they have time to play….. 
However, I admire Korea for taking education so seriously.  My favorite saying is “children are the future”.  Here, that philosophy is put into place.  I can’t imagine how wonderful America would be if we had the same philosophies.  
I was given the largest apartment at the school, its nice, but I have no view out of my window, which is a little depressing.  But the view from outside and around the area is amazing.  I will go on a walk this weekend and share photos.  I was truly astounded at the beauty of the area on the drive over.  My director took me on the scenic route so that I would be able to see the surrounding area.  It’s full of mountains covered in trees on one side and the ocean on the other.  It’s really lovely.  The country is very green.  I’m glad it is so nice.   From what I had read about Ulsan, I was a bit nervous, but it has truly lived up to my expectations.  This part of Korea has the largest industrialized area in all of the country.  I flew over it and I have never seen anything like it.  It is beastly and massive and very unattractive.  I felt so many emotions when I saw it, it covered such a large area of land.  Luckily, it can’t be seen from anywhere in the city area.  
I’m excited for my classes tomorrow.  I am observing this week and my first day of teaching will be the 14th!  I’m nervous, but ready.  I’m glad I took that teaching English class online, I think it has prepared me for the rigorous life of a teacher.  
I’ll close with photos of my journey thus far… hope you enjoy 
Namaste 

Farewell America… Annyong Haseyo Korea!!!

So I made my grande exit from the United States of America.  I had a few drinks, plenty of laughs, and away I went.  The flight went extremely well although very long.  I traveled for about 24 hours!  It was good though…the airplane food was surprisingly delicious.   I had a teriyaki bowl, sushi, and green tea!  

At this moment, I am awake at odd hours in Korea.  It is 9:43 a.m. on Saturday morning and I’m up bright and early after only a few hours of sleep… I hope to get accustomed to the time difference soon.  I just wanted to drop a line so everyone knows I’m okay and doing well!  
Tonight I am going to a jazz festival, I’m going to try my first taste of authentic Korean food, and I’ll be partying lock a rock star in a Korean club!  I’ll keep you updated… 
I’ll upload pictures soon!  
sleepy and excited 
Nichole